Silent Night by Rowena Curtin | Advent 2018 Day 5

Silent Night

By Rowena Curtin 

“We need to find God, and he cannot be found in noise and restlessness. God is the friend of silence. See how nature – trees, flowers, grass- grows in silence; see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence… We need silence to be able to touch souls.” 

Mother Teresa

Two hundred years ago, on a cold Christmas Eve in 1818, Silent Night was sung for the very first time at St. Nicholas Catholic Church in Oberndorf, Austria. As the daughter of a church organist, I remember how hymn numbers used to arrive at the last minute and Mum would dash off to the piano to practice. However, it never crossed my mind that Silent Night, one of the world’s greatest Christmas carols, was also thrown together at the last minute. Or, that the words and music were written by virtual unknowns far removed from world stage. Well, of course, there was no: “Austria’s Got Talent 1818” and Silent Nightinitially spread much more organically. Within a few years, arrangements of the carol appeared in churches in the Salzburg Archdiocese and folk singers from the Ziller Valley spread the composition throughout Europe.

The Genesis of Silent Night

On a cold Christmas Eve in 1818, Josef Mohr needed a carol for midnight Mass on Christmas Eve. With only a few hours to spare, he walked the three kilometres from his home in Oberndorf bei Salzburg to visit his friend Franz Xaver Gruber in the neighbouring town of Arnsdorf bei Laufen. Mohr had brought along a poem he’d written about two years ago, and was hoping Gruber, a school teacher who also served as the church’s choir master and organist, could set it to music.[2]. Gruber composed the melody for Mohr’s “Stille Nacht” in just a few hours and the song was sung at Midnight Mass in a simple arrangement for guitar and choir. 

The German and English lyrics:

        German lyricsYoung’s English lyrics 
Stille Nacht, heilige Nacht,
Alles schläft; einsam wacht
Nur das traute hochheilige Paar.
Holder Knabe im lockigen Haar,
Schlaf in himmlischer Ruh!
Schlaf in himmlischer Ruh!

Stille Nacht, heilige Nacht,
Hirten erst kundgemacht
Durch der Engel Halleluja,
Tönt es laut von fern und nah:
Christ, der Retter ist da!
Christ, der Retter ist da!

Stille Nacht, heilige Nacht,
Gottes Sohn, o wie lacht
Lieb’ aus deinem göttlichen Mund,
Da uns schlägt die rettende Stund’.
Christ, in deiner Geburt!
Christ, in deiner Geburt!
Silent night, holy night,
All is calm, all is bright
Round yon virgin mother and child.
Holy infant, so tender and mild,
Sleep in heavenly peace,
Sleep in heavenly peace.

Silent night, holy night,
Shepherds quake at the sight;
Glories stream from heaven afar,
Heavenly hosts sing Alleluia!
Christ the Savior is born,
Christ the Savior is born!

Silent night, holy night,
Son of God, love’s pure light;
Radiant beams from thy holy face
With the dawn of redeeming grace,
Jesus, Lord, at thy birth,
Jesus, Lord, at thy birth. 

However, I didn’t know it was the song’s 200th’s anniversary when I decided to write about Silent Night. Rather, I wanted to share a treasured family experience of Silent Night, which dates back to the 1950s and 60s when my grandfather, Pastor Bert Haebich, was the minister at St John’s Lutheran Church in Wollongong, located just South of Sydney, Australia. 

Every Christmas Eve, the Church held its annual Christmas Tree service, where the children would dress up as Mary and Joseph, angels and shepherds and re-enact the Christmas story. However, what made their service particularly special, was that everyone sang Silent Night in their own language at the end of the service, something which unified this diverse group of immigrants, while reminding them of home and acknowledging their origins. 

“Humanity is forever involved in two conflicting currents, the one tending towards unification, and the other towards the maintenance or restoration of diversity…In different spheres and at different levels, both currents are in truth two aspects of the same process.”

Claude Levi Strauss

It says a lot that this was a small congregation of around 166 communicant members (1956) who spoke over 20 different languages, but only included around thirty Australians. Evidently, this congregation was a cultural melting pot and a veritable “United Nations”. It also lacked the stability and community networks you find in more established communities. Indeed, these people had literally been thrown together under often very difficult circumstances, and many were refugees who’d arrived in Australia with nothing but the clothes on their backs and had to start over. Moreover, there weren’t the social services in place to help these immigrants deal with their challenges. That fell to the local communities and in particular, the churches including my grandparents and the family. All they had was their shared faith to glue them together.

My grandparents always reflected fondly on their time in Wollongong and made many life-long friends there. However, as soon as you try to walk in their shoes, you realize that with all this cultural diversity, it must’ve been very difficult trying to pull everyone together. Perhaps, this need for unity explains why the Ladies Guild produced a cookbook: Around the World With Cooking. The introduction includes an: Around the World Recipe and these wishes, which could well have been written by my late grandmother: “Perhaps these culinary customs will inspire those who use them to appreciate and understand their world-wide neighbours just a little better”. 

So, as you could imagine, for all these displaced people, being able to sing Silent Nightin their own language must have meant the world and brought more than a tear to the eye. Grateful perhaps to be where they were, but also missing the good times and loved ones they’d lost or left behind.

On a personal note, both my grandparents were something like third generation Australians. Yet, although many of my grandfather’s ancestors had been among the first Germans to arrive in South Australia in 1838, these families had settled around Hahndorf in the Adelaide Hills and maintained their German language and culture while remaining staunch Lutherans. It was only following the outbreak of WWI, that Hahndorf changed its name temporarily to Ambleside and it was no coincidence that the Principal of the local public school also changed his name. My grandfather was bi-lingual and would intersperse German words throughout everyday conversation. Consequently, I have always known Silent Nightby both its English and German titles, although that’s about as far as my knowledge of the German version went.  

However, I don’t recall ever experiencing hearing Silent Night sung like this growing up in Sydney. Every Christmas Eve, our family also took part in the annual Christmas Tree Service at Church. Roles were assigned and we practiced at Sunday School in the weeks leading up to the big night. Every year, was pretty much the same and much to my disappointment, I never managed to secure the role of Mary and hold the baby Jesus. Rather, we’d cut up a sheet, sew it up the sides and I’d be an angel while my brother was a shepherd. That was except for the year I rebelled. I was sick of being an angel, and joined the shepherds instead. In hindsight, this was akin to Mutiny on the Bounty[1], but didn’t seem to raise any eyebrows. That was back in the 1970s.

Attending Church on Christmas Eve is still something we do as a family. When our kids were younger, they used to do the whole nativity thing. However, as teenagers, they’ve outgrown that and it can also be quite difficult to find a local Church who still dresses up. Some of the  churches don’t have a lot of kids either. 

For me personally, Silent Night is a Christmas carol which has withstood the test of time and remains close to my heart. More than any other Christmas carol, it engenders that sense of peace we experience at times as Christians but also our desire for peace in our world and also in our homes. 

However, as I’ve “grown up”, I’ve come to understand that Christmas Day can be silent for other reasons. Or, on the other hand, rather explosive. Yet, I personally don’t want to give up on Christmas or on Silent Night. Indeed, another age-old Christmas tradition is to revisit some of these frayed relationships, and to try and forge a different course for the New Year. 

After all, Christmas is a time of miracles and we need to keep believing.

Best wishes for Christmas and the New Year!


Rowena Curtin

Sydney, Australia. 

Rowena Curtin launched herself as a poet back in the 1980s and 90s at the University of Sydney and read her poetry at Gleebooks, local festivals and the unforgettable Reasonably Good Cafe. Just before leaving for Europe in 1992, she hit the photocopier, self-publishing her anthology: Locked inside An Inner Labyrinth, which found its way into her backpack. Against the odds, this young 22 year old managed to get past the astute eye of proprietor George Whitman, who gave Rowena her first solo reading at the famous Shakespeare Bookshop in Paris, where the likes of Ernest Hemingway and Anais Nin used to hang out. After returning to Australia, the corporate life beckoned until a series of health issues and disability issues struck home and the pen emerged mightier than every storm or challenge which has crossed her path. Rowena has been blogging at 2012 and has a few manuscripts in the bottom drawer, while mastering the fine art of procrastination and avoidance…something to tackle in the New Year. 

Read Rowena’s Advent Calendar posts of the past: A Stinking Hot, Australian Christmas

[1]Mutiny on the Bounty. BrE. the name of two films about a famous historical incident which occurred in 1789. The sailors on the British ship HMS Bounty took control of it by force and put the captain and some senior officers in a small boat on the open sea.

18 thoughts on “Silent Night by Rowena Curtin | Advent 2018 Day 5

  1. Thank you for popping by, Trent. It’s interesting that you mention the musical connection, because food is also a very important part of Christmas for me and until very recently, I always made a cake and a pudding in advance. However, both of the posts I’ve written for Solveig’s calendar have been about music and Christmas definitely wouldn’t be Christmas without the particular mix of carols or going to Church. Atm I love O Holy Night as well and have played it on my violin. It’s so beautiful.
    Hope you’re having a great week. I am trying to take things slowly now as my daughter has a big day on Saturday with her dance concert and I have my violin concert on Sunday. Phew. Then we can relax a bit I hope.
    Best wishes,

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  2. Reblogged this on Beyond the Flow and commented:
    Once again, I’ve participated in Solveig Werner’s annual Advent Calendar where people from around the world share their different experiences of Christmas and their various traditions. As a proud Australian, I do my bit to share what it’s like to celebrate Christmas Down Under where it is Summer btw and not a snowflake in sight. Indeed, Santa attends our local Christmas festivities onboard a fire truck.
    This year I wrote about Silent Night and my mother’s experiences growing up as an Australian within a migrant community where everyone sang Silent Night on Christmas Eve in their native tongue.
    Best wishes,

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  3. Rowena that is a beautiful story! I didn’t know all that about the history of this carol. How fantastic that you are from such a musical family. I’m a musician too 🙂 I love so much the idea of all those people singing this song on all their languages. Thanks so much for sharing this!

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    1. Thanks so much for reading and commenting. I played Danny Boy on my violin for the end of year concert today. I was about to write that it was so much fun, but then I remembered the stress. What do you play?
      Best wishes,

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        1. I know what you mean about being coerced. I’ve been practicing my violin a lot more lately and actually played Danny Boy and Holy Night for my parents and aunt the other night. My aunt said my face was beaming at the end. I was amazed that I actually sounded alright and Mum and they were telling me I’m quite good. My family isn’t into fake praise and with my mother being a piano teacher and accompanist, she’s more likely to give me constructive criticism and my teacher actually noticed an improvement after playing with her. I love to sing but my breathing difficulties are an issue and I tend to see the violin as my voice these days.
          Hope you have a wonderful Christmas Jetgirl and a wonderfilled New Year.
          Best wishes,

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  4. I knew the story of this beautiful carol but I enjoyed reading this story. I enjoyed the rich family history that makes this special for you. Thanks for sharing your story.

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    1. Hi Dan,
      Thanks so much for popping by and reading. I should’ve popped back and followed up on the comments a bit sooner.
      Not long til Christmas now. I finally have the ingredients for my Christmas cake, which should’ve been made a few months ago but as the saying goes, there’s no time like the present.
      Best wishes,

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      1. Schedules need to be ignored now and then, just to let them know who’s in charge. Thanks for the follow. Enjoy the weekend (don’t stress).


  5. Hi Rowena, A lovely story in time for the 200th anniversary of the carol ‘Silent Night’. As you mentioned family and friendships can become frayed at Christmas. There seems to be so much pressure in the lead up to finalise a year that was; to buy a gift and to try and buy a Christmas like that seen in the films. Silent Night is such a gentle song and allows us to stop and take stock and be grateful for what we have . Thanks for sharing your story and Merry Christmas. Anthony

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    1. Thanks so much for popping by and reading this, Anthony. I like what you say about Silent Night being a gentle song and we need those, particularly at Christmas when we seem to be running so many races at the same time. I also feel the need for gentleness after Amelia and I got stuck in the storm on Thursday afternoon. We’d been trawling the shops trying to find anything for Jonathon for Christmas, and didn’t see the warning signs. Amelia was telling me to hurry up but I couldn’t walk any faster and the next thing, she’d gone across the crossing on West Street and I was left outside the butcher as the hail fell. Naturally, that was distressing to both of us but the lady in the $2.00 shop there, took her in and looked out for her, which was really lovely. As well as the fury of the hail stones hurtling to earth, there was also the incredible, alarming din as the hail pelted against the awnings. So, I’ve been needing to chill out and Silent Night and gentle songs are just what I need.
      Merry Christmas to you and the family,
      Best wishes,

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  6. I love that Silent Night was sung in multiple languages. I live in California (only state in the country with Eucalyptus trees – that I know of), but I went to boarding school right outside Wollongong as a child. How I miss Australia!!! I remember going to the beach on CHristmas Day, with a picnic, and my new parasol. Ahh!!! those were the days!! Thank-you for the post, and bringing back the memories!!!

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