S is for Secret
Many many years ago, our next door neighbour came to see my mother to share a secret with her. I found my conversation with my mum interrupted so that our neighbour could share what weighed her heart. She said that it would be better if I left the room, because she was going to share a secret with my mom. I did not want to leave, this was not a good friend of my mother’s, my mother was good friends with her girlfriend. For some reason my mom did not think that it was necessary for me to leave either, she did not join in on our neighbour’s request. Of course I would have left the adults alone if I had been asked by my mother, but I surely would have eavesdropped from the top of the stairs…
Our neighbour gave in and accepted to share her “secret” with my mom while I was around. Just, there was one condition! I had to do an Indian swear of honour that I would not tell anyone. I had never been asked to give an oath in my life, so doing an Indian swear of honour was definitely interesting and strange.
And the secret?
Honestly I have no idea what the two women talked about, my oath made me forget in the 10 minutes following the conversation. I kept the secret, even from myself.
Have you ever forgotten a secret that you have been told? Or are you someone who accidentally shares secrets?
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I was not expecting that! I can’t remember if I’ve forgotten a secret…sometimes when time passes secrets don’t seem secret anymore.
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So in a way I managed to add a twist?
I have no clue what they talked about, and from my memory I didn’t remember the next day, even an hour later, maybe it was just not interesting, or too complicated…
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I would guess just not interesting for a kid. Adults and children tend to be interested in different things!
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what counted for me was to be there during their conversation…
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Yea that makes sense, so the context you remember because it’s the feeling of being included, but the content of the words not so much.
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Great post, Solveig, sweet that you forgot 🙂
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It’s interesting that you forgot. I don’t think I ever forgot a secret that was shared with me. Great post!
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I dislike secrets. I don’t like to tell them. I don’t like to hear them. I do keep them when I am asked to but I really don’t like it.
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I am ok with secrets when they are for a surprise. But not serious ones because they can make life quite miserable, especially if we are not allowed to share them with anyone.
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